1Terrible things happen to all of us. Depending on how we handle them,they can ruin us or they can profoundly improve us.
2 为远大目标奋斗,肯定会不止一次跌倒,而且会跌得很重,这些挫折是对你的考验,将人与人区分开来。
Striving hard for big things is bound to lead you to painful falls. These setbacks will test you. They sort people.
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阿德勒的个体心理学不仅关注过去对个人的影响,更强调人们如何看待和认知环境比环境本身更重要,这无疑给了很多受“原生家庭决定论”影响的人更多改变的希望, 但我觉得他在男女关系以及婚姻那块的看法有点outdated了,当今社会女性应当要有更多的自主性了。
好几处情节都尬得抠脚,不知道是翻拍改编的,还是自己加的。最后一处好离谱,公主为了让自己嫁给沙平威,帮母后解开婚前旧情的心结,还说给旁边的侍卫宫女们听见?也太离谱了点…
不错的书,人既要重视道德也要重视科学。人与人之间相处,是一种艺术,不要总学西方人那一套。
1Terrible things happen to all of us. Depending on how we handle them,they can ruin us or they can profoundly improve us. 2 为远大目标奋斗,肯定会不止一次跌倒,而且会跌得很重,这些挫折是对你的考验,将人与人区分开来。 Striving hard for big things is bound to lead you to painful falls. These setbacks will test you. They sort people.